Friday Five: 5 Sex Languages
We’ve talked about love languages, but what about sex languages? Did you know that everyone speaks different languages when it comes to sexual encounters? Sexologist and educator Jaiya Ma created the Erotic Blueprint Types™. Understanding yours can lead the way to your personal arousal map and help you achieve orgasmic states. Learning how to sexually communicate with your partner is an amazing way to level up your sex life. 😉
Keep reading to learn all 5 sex types and how to turn them on. 🔥
1. The Sensual Type
This blueprint is driven by stimulating all five senses: sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound are all together essential in building arousal. If you or your partner(s) primarily have the Sensual blueprint, creating an atmosphere with soft music, scented candles, or even incorporating blindfolds can heighten the sensory experience.
2. The Energetic Type
Those with this blueprint are aroused by anticipation, distance and teasing. It’s crucial to take things slowly to build up excitement, as they can easily disengage if overwhelmed. Energetics need to feel safe, connected and comfortable to let the energy flow naturally with their partner.
3. The Sexual Type
Sexual types get aroused quickly. Just being close to someone they’re attracted to, or watching explicit content with or of someone, can spark desire. They find relaxation in sex and often prefer getting straight to the point rather than indulging in prolonged anticipation or teasing. Their directness can sometimes cause friction with other blueprint types who crave a slower build-up.
4. The Kinky Type
Kinky types are aroused by activities that might be seen as unconventional or "taboo". They thrive on exploring new experiences and enjoy using toys to enhance pleasure. However, they might sometimes feel misunderstood by other blueprint types, leading to feelings of shame or withdrawal.
5. The Shapeshifter Type
This blueprint is adaptable and can connect with any other type. Shapeshifters enjoy a wide range of stimuli and often crave more—more touch, more sensation, more connection. However, they may sometimes worry they’re overwhelming their partner, which can lead to feelings of shame and retreat.
So, are you ready to start talking your partner’s language?
