Friday Five: 5 Ways to Explore Your Sexual Blueprint
Did you know we all have a unique sexual "Blueprint" that shapes our desires and preferences? Think of it as your personal roadmap to pleasure—whether you're Sensual, Energetic, Sexual, kinky, or a mix of all of those: a Shapeshifter.
Understanding your Blueprint can help you connect more deeply with yourself and your partner, creating more fulfilling and exciting experiences.
Ready to dive in? Here are five ways to explore your Sexual Blueprint and discover what truly lights your fire.
1. Take the Blueprint Quiz 📝
Discovering your Sexual Blueprint is the first step toward understanding your desires. The quiz helps you identify whether you’re Sensual, Energetic, Sexual, Kinky, or Shapeshifter and provides insights into what makes you tick.
Actionable Tip: Take the quiz in a quiet space where you can focus, and jot down any immediate reactions or realizations to discuss later.
Curious about your Blueprint? Uncover your unique intimacy style...
2. Experiment Solo First 🛋️
Exploring your Blueprint on your own allows you to gain confidence and clarity about your preferences. Sensual types might enjoy textured fabrics or massage oils, while Energetic types might find mindfulness or breathing exercises stimulating.
Actionable Tip: Dedicate 15–20 minutes to self-exploration a few times a week, experimenting with different textures, scents, or scenarios.
Want ideas for solo exploration? Find our favorite tips and tools...
3. Share and Compare with a Partner 🗣️
Once you’ve explored your Blueprint, share your findings with your partner. Encourage them to take the quiz too, then compare notes. Discuss how your preferences align or differ and explore creative ways to meet in the middle.
Actionable Tip: Plan a “blueprint date night” where each partner leads an activity based on their Blueprint.
4. Engage Your Blueprint Daily 🌟
Small, consistent actions can keep you connected to your Blueprint. Sensual types can indulge in luxurious skincare routines, while Shapeshifters might switch up their approach to match different moods throughout the week.
Actionable Tip: Set a daily reminder to engage your senses or explore a new aspect of your Blueprint, even outside the bedroom.
Discover easy ways to stay connected to your Blueprint every day...
5. Be Open to Evolution 🌱
Your Sexual Blueprint may change over time or with different experiences, and that’s a good thing! Revisiting the quiz or experimenting with elements from other Blueprints can open doors to new discoveries.
Actionable Tip: Make a list of one or two new things you’re curious to try and revisit it every month to gauge your interest.
Want to dive deeper into your evolving Blueprint? Learn more...
Exploring your Sexual Blueprint is an ongoing journey, and there’s no right or wrong way to do it.
Embrace curiosity, communicate with your partner, and enjoy the process of discovering what brings you joy and connection.
Happy exploring!
